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Fingering is the first experience of boys and girls for checking their sexuality. Teenage boys want to know about fingering a girl. Fingering for some girls is more innocent process (but with the same pleasure). Fingering is a useful technique to find out what she likes in sex and know about her sexually sensitive spots. If you are trying to finger her for the first time, you have more chances to get everything you want if you're really self-confident and charismatic person.
Please remember - what you are dealing with is a very sensitive part of female body and you should be very gentle when you begin and then gradually move on to making more rigorous moves when she is comfortable with it. Different persons like different kind of touch, speed, tempo and amount of fingers. If your partner is virgin, you should expect some bleeding from hymen.
Step by step approach
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First try to massage her mound with palm. Tell her to gently ride your palms to start with. |
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It is recommended to use some lubricant on your fingertip and trace the outer of her vagina to know how wet she is. The lubricant will help her glide over your fingers smoothly. Gently touch her clitoris and her opening. Start very slow at first and then gradually move up and down or side movements. Very gently check what she prefers. |
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If she is comfortable, soon she will be excited and then you can put a finger into her vagina but very gently. If you know her G spot, rub it with a circular motion that is smooth and regular. If she is comfortable, you can try so called “finger intercourse” moving your finger in and out of her vagina. At the same time use the thumb of the same hand to massage her clitoris. You should discover the rhythm and coordination that can please her. |
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If she gets to a high point, her breathing will change and vagina muscles will flex against your hand movements. To help build her orgasm, it is advisable to push your fingers against her thrusts. Rhythm is important because it gives her the orgasm and stopping it might result in her losing the sensation. Follow her body language and continue according to her feelings. |
Finger techniques
The rubber |
The most important and sensitive place for stimulation is clitoris. If woman is exited, her vagina will produce the natural lubrication. Anyway the additional lubricants on your fingers also could be useful. Use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clitoris softly in a circular motion. Pay special attention to her body language, try to lease her. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. I she said "Don't stop!" – don’t stop. Some women, however, like it when you take a break and proceed to insert those very same fingers inside the vagina at a rhythmic pace. |
The helping hand |
Second hand also can be useful. If you can use both hands at different speed, it could stimulate her lubrication. While using the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clitoris in a circular motion, you can use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. |
The fastest finger |
Sometimes your middle finger also can be useful – use your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speeds. This can increase her excitement. Discover yourself what she prefer – slow, fast, hop up and down. For “fastest finger” you better be in front of her vagina (that is, spread her legs open and kneel in between them). That way, you can keep your hand straight and ensure that your finger(s) is (are) going in at full capacity. |
The screw |
In the spirit of the "fastest finger" technique, you'll need to use your index and middle fingers for this one. Again, sit between her legs and start off with the palm of your hand facing down. Insert your fingers all the way in, then turn your hand so that your palm is facing up and comes out. Repeat it as often as necessary until she reaches pleasure. |
The slider |
For “slider” you need good lubrication - with your index and middle fingers start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clitoris, then glide down and make your way inside her vagina. Get back to where you started and keep repeating this maneuver. |
The G-spot indicator |
Sitting in front of her with your palm facing up insert your finger inside her and make a "come hither" motion – try to discover her G-spot (her body language can help you). |
Important – be sure that your nails are not sharp or have rough edges, otherwise you might hurt her.
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